Relationships: Partnering Up Consciously – Separating Consciously 2/3

The more we evolve, the more we will be able to easily trust that our hearts are showing us a true picture when choosing a spouse or life-partner (or even friends or a business partner).

(Link to Part 1,  As We Continue to Evolve All Our Relationships Will Improve found here

We will no longer need to be so wary of our unconscious influences luring us into chaotic situations or have to be so vigilant at continuously examining our emotions, desires, or motives.

Nor will we have to be so cautious of others’ motives. As we will be working at higher vibration capacities, our radars will be well attuned to the vibrations of others and if something is off we will cue into it quickly.

The greater our connection to our True Self the more we feel guided towards partners based on true soul parings where we encourage each other to be the best we can be.

This article is based on  Ch 5, “Relationships” in my book, Your Journey to Peace …  About Book here

And because our strength and self-confidence comes from within, we are not invested in changing our partner or making them acquiesce to our desires.

We also understand that our partner gets his or her strength and guidance from their True Self, and if that guidance is calling them to move on from the relationship we will not be so inclined towards drama, anger, revenge, or the plethora of negative responses breaking up has caused in the past.

As we continue to evolve, choosing our spouses and life-partners consciously will st rt to become the norm.

Separating Consciously Will Also Start to Become the Norm

In our most recent history an intact family provided the foundations we needed to grow emotionally healthy, and when divorce or separations occurred, even if the family life was not perfect, the children felt like the rug was being pulled out from under them.

The sense of security children feel when a family is intact and they are surrounded by at least some love and caring echoes God’s unconditional love for us.

When a family breaks up, the sense of loss is somewhat due to changed circumstances, but much of it is due to the drama and emotions surrounding how most separations and divorces are dealt with – at  least how they have been in the past.

When there is  drama, conflict, blame, revenge and the many negative  attitudes and behaviors that often come about in the midst of divorce or separation, that sense of love and security is eroded. Even when a family is not perfect and there is some conflict, an intact family still offers a sense of security to the children.

As we become more evolved individually and are more closely connected to our True Selves, our separations will occur without the dire effects that has been so common and fueled by hurt, anger, rage, revenge, and blame.

We are already encouraging our children to look into their hearts and trust their inner guidance, and so their connection to their True Self is stronger than in past generations. This gives them an inner-strength that follows them everywhere.


As couples are inspired to separate or divorce with integrity, they will honor the promises made and will be able to agree on shared child rearing duties, day-to-day obligations, and fair distribution of finances.

The children will then be much less inclined to internalize the effects of the break-up and succumb to dysfunctional attitudes or behaviors, or pass on the effects of unresolved issues regarding their parents’ separation onto their own children.

This blog post is a continuation of Part 1,  As We Continue to Evolve All Our Relationships Will Improve. Found HERE  

 ~ Rosemary McCarthy© February 11, 2020.

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